The Shift That Changes Everything: Why Action Builds Confidence (Not Motivation)


Dec 11, 2025

 by Ron Nichols
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The Shift That Changes Everything

I’ve coached people for over two decades now, and there’s a pattern I see constantly—especially for people over 40 who are trying to get their health and strength back.

Most people don’t struggle because they’re unmotivated or broken.
They struggle because they’re stuck in consuming instead of acting.

They read about fitness.
They watch videos.
They listen to podcasts.
They save recipes and buy supplements.
They scroll through workouts and motivational posts…

And yet, nothing really changes.

You’re not alone if that feels familiar.
And you’re definitely not failing—this is a normal part of the journey.

Why Most People Stay Stuck (And It’s Not a Lack of Information)

People today have more information about health and fitness than ever before.
But they’re making fewer changes than ever before.

Information isn’t the missing ingredient.
Implementation is.

And for most people, especially in their 40s, 50s, and beyond, the real barrier is fear disguised as:

  • “I’m not ready yet.”

  • “I need to lose some weight before I start.”

  • “I want to get in better shape first.”

  • “Life is too busy right now.”

The language changes.
The fear stays the same.

My Turning Point: When Imperfect Action Became the Answer

Years ago—long before I became a powerlifter, martial artist, or coach—I was trapped in the same cycle myself. I read everything. I gathered information. I planned. I thought about making changes…

But nothing happened.

My life didn’t change until I finally took the first step before I felt ready.

And once I did, something clicked:

I looked around and realized most people were in the exact same place they were a year earlier.
Same frustrations.
Same goals.
Same struggles.

The difference wasn’t talent or motivation.
It was this:

Action creates momentum.
Momentum creates confidence.
Confidence fuels transformation.

Fear Disguised as “Not Ready Yet”

Most people don’t admit fear—not even to themselves.
It hides behind logical-sounding excuses.

But here’s the truth:

The longer you wait to start, the harder it becomes.
The moment you start—even imperfectly—you begin to rise.

You don’t need motivation first.
You don’t need confidence first.
You don’t need perfection first.

You just need the willingness to move.

Action Creates Confidence—Not the Other Way Around

This is the mindset shift that changes everything.

Most people believe:

“Once I feel confident, I’ll start.”

But confidence doesn’t create action.
Action creates confidence.

Every rep you finish…
Every workout you show up for…
Every time you choose progress over perfection…

You build self-trust.
You build belief.
You build strength—from the inside out.

The Shift We Teach at Freedom Strength & Fitness

At FSF, we don’t focus on punishment, perfection, or pressure.

We focus on the shift:

Step 1: Show up before you feel ready.

You don’t need confidence to walk through the door. You build it here.

Step 2: Give yourself permission to be a beginner.

No one expects you to have it all figured out. We just expect you to show up.

Step 3: Build strength physically and mentally.

We train your body to get strong.
We help your mind learn to trust itself again.
Strength becomes freedom—in every part of your life.

If you'd like to see what this looks like in action, check out our
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Why This Shift Matters for People Over 40

The older we get, the more our body—and our confidence—respond to inactivity.
And the more we think we need to be perfect before we begin.

But the truth is:

You don’t need a perfect plan.
You don’t need more research.
You don’t need to wait for motivation to magically hit.

You just need to take the first step.

You take action → confidence grows.
Confidence grows → your life gets lighter.
Your life gets lighter → you feel free again.

This is what we see every day inside FSF.
This is what makes our community different.

And this is why we call it Freedom Strength & Fitness.

Because the strength you build here becomes the freedom you feel out there.


Final Thought: Strength Creates Freedom

If you’ve been waiting for the “right moment,” let me be honest with you:

There is no perfect moment.
Just the one you choose.

And the moment you choose to start—even imperfectly—is the moment everything begins to shift.

If you’re ready for that shift, we’ll walk with you.
Click here to Talk to a Trainer or learn how to Start your Comeback.

Your confidence is waiting on the other side of action.
Let’s take the step together.