Five Key Lessons from Two Decades of Coaching and Training


Aug 26, 2024

 by Ron Nichols
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I’ve been coaching and training for over two decades now, and along the way, I’ve learned a lot—not just about fitness, but about life itself. My journey in strength training, martial arts, and personal coaching has taught me valuable lessons that extend far beyond the gym.

These lessons have been the foundation of my success as a trainer, and today, I’d like to share five of the most important ones with you.

1. How to Handle Adversity

"Pain is temporary. Quitting lasts forever." - Lance Armstrong

One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned from training is how to deal with adversity. In the gym, just like in life, challenges are inevitable. There will be days when the weights feel heavier, the progress seems slower, and the motivation just isn’t there. But every time you push through a tough workout, you build resilience.

Strength training teaches you to keep moving forward, even when things get tough. It reminds you that setbacks are part of the process and that growth comes from overcoming them. Just like a challenging workout, life will test you, but each time you push through, you get closer to your goals.

2. The Balance Between Individual Growth and Team Support

“You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great.” - Zig Ziglar

In strength training, much like in life, there’s a delicate balance between personal growth and supporting others. While lifting weights can feel like a solo endeavor, true progress often comes from the community around you. Whether it’s a training partner pushing you to do one more rep or a coach guiding you to improve your form, you realize that even individual achievements are built on a foundation of teamwork.

This lesson extends beyond the gym. Whether you’re running a business, raising a family, or pursuing personal goals, you need both personal responsibility and a supportive network. You can achieve a lot on your own, but with the right team by your side, the possibilities are limitless.

3. The Importance of Staying the Course

“It’s not about perfect. It’s about effort. And when you bring that effort every single day, that’s where transformation happens. That’s how change occurs.” - Jillian Michaels

Consistency is key in any fitness journey. Just as you can’t build muscle with one workout, you can’t achieve lasting success without daily effort. There will be times when progress feels slow, but those are the moments when staying the course matters most.

In martial arts, we often say that mastery is about showing up day after day, year after year. It’s the same with fitness and life. Success doesn’t come from a single breakthrough moment; it comes from the grind—the daily commitment to keep improving, no matter what.

4. Focusing on What Truly Matters

“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.” - Leonardo da Vinci

In both fitness and life, it’s easy to get caught up in the details. The perfect workout routine, the ideal diet plan, the latest trends—they can all distract us from what truly matters. But when you strip it all away, success in fitness boils down to a few simple principles: consistency, effort, and progression.

Similarly, in life and business, it’s about identifying the core drivers of success and focusing relentlessly on them. Don’t get bogged down by the noise—keep your eye on what really matters, and you’ll see better results.

5. Appreciating the Journey

“Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you’ll look back and realize they were the big things.” - Robert Brault

When I look back on my years of training and coaching, what stands out most aren’t the personal records or the accolades. It’s the relationships, the shared struggles, and the collective victories. The laughter after a tough session, the camaraderie of a group class, the moments of breakthrough when a client realizes their own strength—those are the memories that last.

Life is much the same. It’s easy to get caught up in chasing the next goal, but the true reward lies in appreciating the journey. The friendships you build, the lessons you learn, the experiences you share—these are the things that make it all worthwhile.

So take a moment to enjoy where you are right now. Whether you’re lifting weights, running a business, or spending time with loved ones, appreciate the present. These moments are fleeting, and once they’re gone, you can’t get them back.